Im not sure what I did wrong I would sure like to get them back.
Perhaps you mean the CommandManager? See this help topic and the ones it links to for information about turning it on/off, repositioning it, etc.
2014 SOLIDWORKS Help - CommandManager
I hope this helps,
Which menu tabs are you referring to?
Could you tell me how to change my avatar to the photo I uploaded.
and I don't know how to delete my question on the list, or does it always stay there?
I think there actually does exist the capability for the original poster to delete the thread, but it's usually not a good idea to do so. People with questions are encouraged to, and often do, search to see if a question has already been answered. If that capability does exist it is probably listed under Actions in the upper right corner of the page.
See this post about how to update your profile, including avatar.
How To: Update your profile
Thanks Jim that worked. I'm new to solidworks and there is a lot going on. Going to the class in two weeks.
Ok now I marked myself as helpful haha now how do I mark my message green because it was answered?
I figured it out.
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