when I try to mate two parts it says that they are both fixed and all mates will we ignored.
If you have not added other mates to constrain them they are likely fixed because of how you added them to the assembly. Right click on them (or at least one of them) and select Float - this will unconstrain them and allow them to move (and be mated to other parts).
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